[10] And these also first be proved; then let them use the office of a deacon, found blameless. [11] Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. [12] the deacons the husbands wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. [13] For they that have used the office of a deacon well purchase to themselves a good degree, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.