[8] Likewise must the deacons be grave, not doubletongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre; [9] Holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience. [10] And these also first be proved; then let them use the office of a deacon, found blameless. [11] Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. [12] the deacons the husbands wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.